When does a man become a man?

When he can make his own decisions without the influence of another, except themselves, and the inner self that Jesus guides and directs through His spirit of Truth The Holy Spirit!

The same is true with a woman when she can make her own decisions without the influence of another, except themselves, and the inner self that Jesus guides and directs through His spirit of Truth The Holy Spirit!

~ G.S.MinistrDef

And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.