“Why do we ask 'why'?”

Answer:

In life sometimes we don’t like to learn or go through a learning process because it goes contrary to what we are used to doing habitually since childhood as in daily routines.

How to make a better change in life according to The Holy Scriptures?

Luke 9:23-27 KJV [23] And he said to them all, If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow me. [24] For whosoever will save his life shall lose it: but whosoever will lose his life for my sake, the same shall save it. [25] For what is a man advantaged, if he gain the whole world, and lose himself, or be cast away? [26] For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed, when he shall come in his own glory, and in his Father's, and of the holy angels. [27] But I tell you of a truth, there be some standing here, which shall not taste of death, till they see the kingdom of God.

~ G.S.MinistrDef